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Whitney
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PostSubject: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 3:43 pm

about due dates. I have a friend who's pregnant, and she's not in a relationship and she's actually not really sure which of a couple guys could be the father. (Hold your opinions, please.)

Anyway, she went to the doctor on Feb. 17th, and she was 13 weeks. So she's trying to count back and figure out which one is most likely the father and I was thinking...

I don't know much about this stuff but isn't that not actually the day of the actual sex? Isn't the official start of the pregnancy the day of something else? So counting back 13 weeks isn't actually going to tell her the day of the conception sex, is it?

Ahhh this is all very confusing.

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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 3:46 pm

Dates go by your the first day of your last menstral cycle. Its confusing.
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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 3:57 pm

Here's a reverse calculator that will show her the date of conception based on her due date.

http://babymed.com/Tools/pregnancy/conception_date/
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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:46 pm

Thank you! I will pass that along for her.

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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 5:52 pm

does she keep any kind of journal/date book? Honestly, I would be wary of a doctor if he was using the last known period to mark her pregnancy by. Because its normally not then, and can lead to screwy things happening. Hopefully she can get it figured out though. If nothing else she can have a dna test done while she is pregnant. I think she can anyway.
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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 5:57 pm

She didn't really say what the doctor was using to mark when the due date is, I think she's just taking blind shots cuz she's kind of embarassed that she doesn't know who the father is...she told me she wishes she knew for sure which of two guys it is so he could be involved in the pregnancy if he so chooses, she doesn't want to deprive him of that. I told her she made her decisions and now she might just have to tell them both in hopes that she can get a DNA test soon.

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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:01 pm

They could of gone of last LMP or did an ultrasound and determined size.
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PostSubject: Re: I have a question...   Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:03 pm

Hopefully she can get it figured out and if not she can talk to both and get something figured out!
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