hubbys been home almost 2 months...

Do they tell you anything else? Have the done any tests to test yours or your husband's fertility?

I'm sorry you feel like they're giving you the run around.

I know you dont want to hear it but it has to be 1 year of no breaks of trying before you can try medications and such. If they arent listening to you then I suggest tracking your fertility on your own using charting and temping and ovulation kits. If you arent ovulating then there is something wrong, if you are then it could be male factor. Either way I suggest going to a regular OB, they can give you clomid and do follicle checks. A RE wont see you until you have been to an OB and tried other options. I dont know what you have tried so far or if you have been to the point of medication so my guess wont be right on, everyone is different! What have you tried so far? Have you been diagnosed with anything?

well i have been told i have a cyst but after a year of trips to the emergancy room every 2 months for excrutiating pain (thats when they finnaly said ohh you have a cyst.) that was the end of it.. I was told to come back in 2 mo so i did and the doc said well i dont see why you cant get preg just keep trying no explantation of this whole cyst thing.. why i was ending up in the ER with pain that could kill a elephant nothing..i live in a tiny town so we have 5 docs... all male and no compassion at all. we have been trying for 3 years constiantly the only time we stoped was of couse waile he was deployed..but all i keep hearing from the docs is well your young ya i may be 28 but the women in my family (moms) side go into menopause at age 30 to 35... so i am running out of time.. i just dont know what to do.... im lost frustrated and mad!!!

I would search the closest big city and find a doctor there! We drive 2.5-3 hours each way to our doctor in Lexington, KY. I also live in a small town but not that small.

I am sorry to hear things are going so crappy for you. I agree with you, if they arent ATLEAST calling you back then the must not want your business, and that is sad. What I have resorted to is taking my BBT every morning when I wake up, and charting it on

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/

it is free, and they also send me lessons everyday (I am new to the whole scientific terms of TTC, so I needed something to break it down for me). Anyways I hope this helps. Try and go for a different doctor, hopefully it just wont be too far away (I also live in a VERY small community). Good luck dear!

Did they ever give you a reason for the cysts?

My sister has cysts, she has had one rupture once and was in the hospital. The gyno said that her cysts may give her trouble getting pregnant and that she is only ovulating on one side and that is only sometimes.

Looks like the other girls have some awesome suggestions --- charting like Sarah suggested may help the drs to see that you HAVE been trying for a while.....
Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you guys!!!